Who We Are
We are a team of friends who want to educate the world about the struggles of integrating a family.
Please be aware that we are quite honest with our feelings. We will be sharing with you what we've gone through and what we continue to go through. This blog is not about skipping around the pretty bush and while we'd love to strive to have have peace in our blended and step families ~ it doesn't always work that way.
All we ask, is that the people who are on the "outside of the box" looking in, before you leap to judgment -- learn more, educate yourself, ask - make a comment - we'll respond, *try* to put yourself in our shoes. The one thing that has irked us has been people who do not ask and then judge without knowing the circumstances behind why. Please ask.
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I am one of many members on a great stepmom group called
Buckeye Bonusmom (BBM) on Facebook. I have asked permission and have been granted permission to share some of the quotes she uses in this group that have really touched my own stepmom heart; to help me move forward and not get stuck in the crazy world of stepmom moments, and to find comfort in those that truly understand. So, at random I will be sharing quotes from BBM with you.
Here is one to start this off...
"Stepmoms if you focus time and energy into what the BM is doing or if she is saying something to others about you that isn't true basically you are letting her have power over you and control over you. You control your own life and what goes on in it. Don't let her get to you. Don't play the *what if's* over in your head. Work on what you can control, your home, your life and your family....."
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